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    I know, I know, another cl post on love. I thought it was silly to post things like this, but, now I guess I get it.

    What are your guys's expierence with relationships & dating? I'm going to ask this girl on a date next weekend, but don't know where to go and what to do. We've both expressed our love for each other, and cuddle and hold hands and all that... we just haven't went on anything official. :p

    But that leads me to my next question. Once you go on a couple of dates, and assuming it all works out, what do you do from there? Of course, you talk about making it official, and make it public and stuff... but... How do you make it last? I don't want her to end up like my last two.

    And I swear to god, if anyone says something like "Skip the dates and just bang her", I will punch you in the face. No loser like that is ever going to be committed.

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    Well for my dates, I usually take the girl to the mall, or like a town square. Its not too private and awkward for the girl. But remember the manners, Hold the door. Keep good conversation, and the things chicks always like - Talk about them. Do not bring up past boyfriends. Too make it last I would say been fun around the girls. Dont be boring, Dont smother them too much, let them talk to other guys. When I say dont smother, I mean dont be like a clinger. If you are in it for the sex, Just dont. But if you are in this for the long run, I suggest you listen to the advice I have given you. Hope all is well and works out!

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    In around the time you should be celebrating the god of fertility. I say you bang her

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    I assume this is the same girl that you showed us the other day with a great smile?
    Well, I'd ask her to a movie. If there aren't any good ones out, then just ask her to come over to your house or go to hers and watch a movie. I'd rather go to someone's house because it's free and comfortable. Nothing has to happen either but if something does, consider that a bonus. Do this a couple times, then sure go ahead and make it "official" as you say. Don't even ask her, just randomly send her the notification on facebook.

    As for making it last long, that will be hard. I suggest not being a "yes man". That's how they go downhill fast. She does something you don't like, obviously don't be mean about it but let her know. She want's something, or wants to do something you don't, let her know. If she breaks up with you simply because you don't want to do one thing, or get her something, than she's not worth it, and she doesn't think you're worth it.

    Note that I am probably not the best on this topic because I suck with girls, but these are what I have found to work with my own experiences and others.

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    What is it with you Americans and dates, i dont get it.

    The one mistake you dont want to make is making such a big deal about it. Just be yourself, it doesnt matter what you do, to her all that matters is being with the person.

    So going to the movies sometimes isnt the best as you are sitting in silence, doing nothing that makes you stand out or makes you closer. Go to a park or just meet up as friends.

    Idk if there is some gender divide over there or something unlike here so i wouldnt know for sure. But Just dont fret over it all and relax.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Strike View Post
    What is it with you Americans and dates, i dont get it.

    The one mistake you dont want to make is making such a big deal about it. Just be yourself, it doesnt matter what you do, to her all that matters is being with the person.

    So going to the movies sometimes isnt the best as you are sitting in silence, doing nothing that makes you stand out or makes you closer. Go to a park or just meet up as friends.

    Idk if there is some gender divide over there or something unlike here so i wouldnt know for sure. But Just dont fret over it all and relax.
    we dont get to shag everything that moves here. thought we all wish we had Bonds love life

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    Go on a date. Maybe a nice dinner, bitches love dinner and if you can swing it, a movie as well. As much as girls like to deny it, they kinda do love cheesy things. They think it's adorable and shit. Idk why ._.

    To make things last, find out what you have in common and just respect the differences you guys have. Constantly tell her how much you care and all that shit. Not in the annoying way where it's all you talk about but when she least expects it. If you have a fight about something, always try to come to an agreement before sleeping on it. It's something that I've done wrong and it hurt me in the long run. Communication is key


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    Just a note, me being awkward won't be an issue. Ask Josh and FrozenFire, most my friends are girls.

    As for the dates, I don't want to take her to the movies. Strike's right, you sit there in awkward silence the whole time. I'm down to just chilling somewhere, but I want it to be more... official for a first date. Kind of. If that makes sense.

    Sex I'm fine with, but I don't want to rush into anything. I'm a pussy and don't take sex lightly. I want it to mean sothing.

    My phone's derpin. Sorry for the typos.

    I need more suggestions on where to take her. I can't legally drive yet, but I usually just drive her car anyway, so I'm not too worried about it. I want it to be cute and fun.

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    If you're going on a date (which I suppose is to watch a movie) go to the movie first, then have dinner with her (McDolans, Fancy restaurant or whatever) and then you can talk about the movie, try to know what you've got in common what you guys do in your free time, etc.
    Bring her home of course .
    You could also go to a party with her, maybe a birthday of someone, having more people gives the ability to talk more with each-other thanks to others, sometimes.

    Euhm of course as I say, be yourself, but don't over exaggerate it yet.
    Try to come over as confident, but relaxed.. don't shout at her when talking talking softly?

    Also don't be blinded by her outside, listen when she talks.. I know that you've already confessed love and stuff, but on dates you learn quite a lot about a person.

    What more...

    Don't be the woman in the relation, remember you are the male, you can decline ideas of her sometimes and you should defend your opinions of course, just don't go ham over your opinion, because girls will most likely win the fights with pure bs statements lol .
    Don't disrespect her of course, I had the kind of gf which I could joke about without her being mad, but I never pushed the jokes.

    Not sure what else to say.

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