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    So... Seeing how society is as fucked up as it is, I assume I'm not the only one going through a divorce.

    My parents got in a fight one night a while ago... I think it was the morning (1 am) the day I posted the thread saying I don't know where my life will go. I was in the shower, when I heard a thud and thought one of my parents shoved the other into the wall. I got out of the shower, wrapped a towel around my waist, opened the door and saw clothes lining the hallway, from my parents bedroom to the family room down the stairs. I yelled what the fuck at them, and my mom came out of her room half dressed, going downstairs to get her clothes so she can leave. She left and came home at 3-4 a.m., but slept on the couch.

    Since then, my dad has moved down stairs with me and my brother, into this little entertainment room that is between me and my brothers bedroom. He sleeps on a cot while my mom sleeps on their bed. ._. They talk about divorce, my dad is try to work things out with my mom, but my mom is being stubborn. They're too broke to move out - we filed bankruptcy in the past week, so for the time being this is our situation.

    My dad just informed me he's going on a date Friday. ._________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ .

    Part of me hopes that he's going with my mom, but part of me realizes that he isn't. I just don't know how to handle this. They were never in love, and they got married because my mom knocked my dad up. Once I was born all my mom would do is bitch to my grandma about how big of a dick my dad was, and me being young and not knowing what was going on, fucking repeated that shit, because my mom didn't have the decency on doing it where I couldn't hear.

    That's the basic story. I don't want to go into major details because those are more personal... but... like... I just don't know how to handle this. Anyone have an experience like this?

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    Crim Crim ive been through separation and I can tell you that you will get over it eventually. If you focus on it too much then it starts eating you up inside. Just be the cool guy who doesnt look at the giant explosion behind him and move on with your life with more important things. As long as you got food and a roof over your head youll be fine.

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    I didn't give two fucks, until my dad said he was going on a date. Just. a;woeitj;qlawjetql;wyijo;3irjioajleg. Love each other for my younger siblings. >->

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    My parents are separated.
    My mom cheated on my dad and made it look like he was the person doing it.
    She forced me to live with her. I will be moving in with my dad when I go to divorce court.
    My mom blames this kind of stuff on me.
    She leaves me home alone for almost 12-14 hours. Sometimes longer.
    I am also not going to go into detail, but it feels like shit.
    It took me a long time to get over it, but then I was exposed to the type of person she was.
    My dad is the only person my life that I can trust and that doesn't make me feel like crap.

    It makes you feel awful, but life is going to go on.
    Shit happens.
    I am not sure if that helps any.
    I am sorry about it Austin.
    Life sucks, but it is apart of life.
    Love you Austin <3

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