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    First off, I have some really close friends but I can't seriously talk to them about some subject because of their views or morals.

    one of which is women.

    Now I have always had friends who were girls, but when it goes beyond that im horrible.

    I have had one girlfriend, in like 7th grade and it lasted 2 weeks. (just to make myself look less lame she was a grade ahead and had the booty, out of my league)

    Anyway, having a girlfriend never was important to me, im an awkward person so it works best that way. Recently I have taken more interest in attracting the ladies so I need advice.

    My best friend offered me this advice, "Read 25 ways to be a better man on reddit, and offer the girl free pot". which....i can tell wasnt the best advice. im not a frequent smoker and i dont plan to be portrayed as that.

    My question to you guys is how should i try and get closer to girls, now dont get me wrong Im not a looser I socialize perfectly well with all the guys at school ("popular" included) and im not repulsive im tall small built and i don't consider myself to be ugly , i just.....cant hold a conversation with girls i dont personally know for longer than 30 seconds without throwing an anal joke or computer related joke in to try and sound cool. i get red and make a fool of myself.

    What do you guys suggest i do about this? i cant keep acting like a 4th grader and have one of my "girls" who are a friend go around telling girls i like them for me.


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    I need help approaching and talking to girls, with the intention of a relationship.

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    Honestly, when I'm talking to people, sometimes I'm too stuck into the interwebz and I'll make a codeleakers joke and they will just think "what the fuck are you talking about?". Like once I was talking to some idiot, and I called him morder von juden and I just got that "wtf?" look. Just talk about your day. I'm a band kid, and most of my friends are also band people, so all we do is talk about music, music strategies, and what we did during band practice. Most of the crap I say in real life is just a mimic of another character that we enjoy to make fun of. Just talk about your day, that's what I do. I'll tell you right now, I'm a real awkward dude to be sitting next to, but if you just get started with a conversation about a movie you've seen, or something good you ate the night before, it'll lighten the mood. Now what I just said, I use for people I'm already friends with. I don't go up to random people and talk about the new taco bell smothered burrito, but I do with my other female friends that I'm awkward around.

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    I have no idea if this will help or not but this is what google gave me.
    Could be worth looking at, apparently it has pictures too .
    http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Girl-Likes-You

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    Quote Originally Posted by RED 58 View Post
    I have no idea if this will help or not but this is what google gave me.
    Could be worth looking at, apparently it has pictures too .
    http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Girl-Likes-You
    Thanks (i read that like 50 times in 7th grade) but that isnt the issue, starting a proper conversation and not crossing the line is

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    The last thing I can say is don't take girl advice from clay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RED 58 View Post
    The last thing I can say is don't take girl advice from clay.
    maybe he can help, he has been with several cats

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    One way to look at it is, a girl is just another human who has the same problems you do. They wake up eat shit and then go to sleep at the end of the day. There is nothing to be afraid of, maybe if you think of it like that it will just be like talking to your guy friends? Ultimately its just building your confidence to the point where you will be able to talk to the hottest girl you have ever seen with no problem.

    I don't mean to be bitter thats just my mood right now hope it helps.

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    just ask her out and chill and give her gifts and couple weeks later buy couple condoms and fuck her and repeat like a boss.

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    Easy way to engage in a conversation; compliment her on what she is wearing. Something that stands out to you and just try from there. She'll either say thank you and continue on what she was doing or say thank you and actually try to have a conversation. Then you just do your thing and try to not scare her away.

    I do this all the time.

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