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    Default A really serious situation.

    Hey guys I really would like some advices in here and some help.
    I know this site is not about family problems or stuff but I would love some suggestions.

    Well the thing is that my family is in a really serious problem with my brother, my brother since he turned 15 has become aggressive, rebel, and disrespectful towards my parents.

    He calls my mother a bitch, and horrible bad words you would only use on your friends as a joke but man he treats my parents like shit, he even threatens them. He goes to the psychologist but haven't seen change on him. Right now a few minutes ago he told a lot of bullshit to my mom which made me defend her, and let me be clear that me and my brother 7 months ago got into a fight and police came and told us that a next fight would result in jail that's why since then we haven't talk until today.

    So he is really aggresive like I said and the psichologist said that she is checking him, but come on its been two months since she checked him.

    So right now I'm about to call the police so be is arrested (his just 15) or do something. Like this is every day how he treats my parents and they dknt do shit, so tell me what you guys think.

    He is not sleeping home today so either he is arrested, taken to a mental hospital or something, I'm absolutely tired of this, just think about having a brother that threats your parents every day on hitting them if they try to do something to him.

    My brother has an iPhone that he uses all day and he refuses to go to school, he says school sucks and he doesn't want to study anymore, my mom ad punishment for him says she would take his iPhone away but he treats her and she hasn't done shit.

    Thank you.

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    Those parents must be way to nice. My dad would of almost killed me if I had tried something like.

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    If hes youre older brother ive had this exact situation. The only thing I dont like is that my mom keeps enabling him. I wont go into how bad but lets just say I have a god feeling what youre going through. Even though I still live with him I refuse to acknowledge him as much as possible. Hes 20 and my mom never follows through with kicking him out of the house. Idk what your mom could do about him but if he does get violent call the cops. If your mom is as enabling as mine she'll try to bail him out and pay court fees and such.

    As for you all I can say is just dont try to acknowledge him whatsoever. The only thing you can do for yourself is ride it out and dont get in his way unless shit really hits the fan. Give him space and learn to take shit from him. I know pretty much everyone wouldnt let that shit fly with other people but since hes family and he lives with you and hes underage youre just going to have to learn to deal with bullshit. Eventually youll expect him to fuck up on a constant to occasion basis and theres nothing you can do but ignore it.

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    I'm older than him, that's the problem. Last time I got into a fight to him it got bad that cops came and the thing is that I'm older, which means if we both get arrested I'm the one who will be more punished because I'm older (18).

    That's what I'm saying, my parents are to nice to do something. So when me and my brother discussed verbally a few hours ago I stopped because he is capable of destroying my personal stuff (ps4, computer, phone) so I haven't reply back. He doesn't give a shit, my mom warned to call the cops if he hit her a few days ago and my brother said he didn't give a fuck, which makes him capable, and I want to prevent that because if I see him beating my mother hell I might kill him.

    So I'm doing something today so he is not home anymore, just waiting till my dad is home so if something goes wrong he is here.

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    Send his ass to military school.

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    I'd have just beat his ass at this point. I wouldn't put up with that shit...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SHiiFT View Post
    I'd have just beat his ass at this point. I wouldn't put up with that shit...
    Yeah, that's what I did last time, cops came and warned us. If it happens again then I'm fucked, even more than him, also that I will loose more stuff because I'm studying and working and his ass doesn't do shit, so I have plenty stuff to loose while he doesn't.

    If it wasn't because of the warning of course I would if beat his ass, the other thing that prevents me from fighting with him is that he is so capable of doing stuff that I'm afraid he could get a knife while I'm sleeping or break the stuff I have.

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    Become a legend in handing down a beating, and put him in his place.

    If he wants to act like a grown ass adult and use big people words to his mom, grab him by the collar, toss him out the house, lock the doors.
    Congrats, you just evicted your brother. Let him taste the real world.

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