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    So guys. It's been awhile since i've been on this site but i wanted to ask all of you guys if anyone has dealt with this before? My girlfriend has schizophrenia and was diagnosed with it at a very young age. Idk how to help her.. I mean, i went over last night and she started seeing things and mumbling and all i could do was hold her and tell her everything was okay. I know it's weird for me to ask help from people i don't even know but i know that there are really smart people on this website and i'm in need of advice. Anything that can help me help her would be great guys. Seriously.. I'm 16 now and i registered here when i was 11 x) so it's been a awhile.. Oh and hey what's up?

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    dump her, you don't need to deal with bullshit like this in high school

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    dump her, you don't need to deal with bullshit like this in high school
    Eh as insensitive as it sounds, if you see her disability emotional affecting you, its time you part ways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NovaXO View Post
    I'm 16 now and i registered here when i was 11 x)
    that would make you only 14 years old if your registration date is accurate.

    nevertheless, dealing with people that have mental problems can be a handful. my brother has issues and it takes all of my energy to deal with him, however i can do it because i'd do anything for the kid and i fucking love him.

    i've never come into contact with a schizophrenic, but i may be able to help with the previous experiences i've had. what i'm going to type is from my own experience and my own opinion.

    comfort and love is one of the best things you can do. just to know that someone is there for her and loves her no matter what is the backbone to a good relationship. It's not going to be easy, but if you honestly love her then you gotta do what you gotta do. It'll take its toll on you. One thing you gotta keep strong is yourself. If you can keep a positive happy attitude and remain strong despite the negatives that you're both dealing with, that will make a huge difference. Send out good vibes and happy energy (hippie shit i know, but it works wonders for me)

    Understanding and patience is another thing that's good. If you can understand what she's dealing with and help her realize what reality is you can help her get a grasp on what's real, give her a surface to stand on or a hand to hold when she's falling, someone to look up to. This will take tons of time, and that's where patience come in. You might get angry, I know I did. I usually went for a ride or took a jog to relieve anger. Never direct or take out your anger on her, that'll make things much worse.

    Staying happy and strong is probably the last bit of advice that I've got. Like I said previously, you may not have a clue what's going on in her head, but if you can be there for a strong and happy person that she can relate to, be with, and to love, that will mean so much for her.

    There is medication, and I'm no doctor so don't hold me to anything related to medicinal reasons lol. Possibly you could have her consult a doctor or a psychiatrist if she hasn't already so she can get help with the chemical imbalances in her mind.

    This is just my two cents, but yae.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Feckless. View Post
    that would make you only 14 years old if your registration date is accurate.

    nevertheless, dealing with people that have mental problems can be a handful. my brother has issues and it takes all of my energy to deal with him, however i can do it because i'd do anything for the kid and i fucking love him.

    i've never come into contact with a schizophrenic, but i may be able to help with the previous experiences i've had. what i'm going to type is from my own experience and my own opinion.

    comfort and love is one of the best things you can do. just to know that someone is there for her and loves her no matter what is the backbone to a good relationship. It's not going to be easy, but if you honestly love her then you gotta do what you gotta do. It'll take its toll on you. One thing you gotta keep strong is yourself. If you can keep a positive happy attitude and remain strong despite the negatives that you're both dealing with, that will make a huge difference. Send out good vibes and happy energy (hippie shit i know, but it works wonders for me)

    Understanding and patience is another thing that's good. If you can understand what she's dealing with and help her realize what reality is you can help her get a grasp on what's real, give her a surface to stand on or a hand to hold when she's falling, someone to look up to. This will take tons of time, and that's where patience come in. You might get angry, I know I did. I usually went for a ride or took a jog to relieve anger. Never direct or take out your anger on her, that'll make things much worse.

    Staying happy and strong is probably the last bit of advice that I've got. Like I said previously, you may not have a clue what's going on in her head, but if you can be there for a strong and happy person that she can relate to, be with, and to love, that will mean so much for her.

    There is medication, and I'm no doctor so don't hold me to anything related to medicinal reasons lol. Possibly you could have her consult a doctor or a psychiatrist if she hasn't already so she can get help with the chemical imbalances in her mind.

    This is just my two cents, but yae.
    Thanks for the advice. And This isn't my first account. My dob is 9/13/98. Idk what year i registered initially. Anyways she does have meds for that but she has anxiety and depression as well. And from the research i've been doing. Some psychiatric drugs can worsen her condition. She has a past dealing with child abuse, bullying and drugs. As well as sexual abuse. A bunch of shit that no child should go through. All that stuff just added on to what she has. It's pretty fucked up. I'm trying to get her away from her parents but legal issues come up.. I know i'm young but i trust my feelings. I know i can deal with this so yeah.

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    Don't worry much, all she needs is reassurance. Remember that you're a support, not the support.

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    Eh as insensitive as it sounds, if you see her disability emotional affecting you, its time you part ways.
    That sounds selfish though, a non-mental ill kid breaking up with a mentally ill kid because they're feeling distressed. Pathetic.

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    That sounds selfish though, a non-mental ill kid breaking up with a mentally ill kid because they're feeling distressed. Pathetic.

    Its not selfish. Its being sensible. Im not saying its the right choice but you can't live your life tip toeing around people just because their different, that is pathetic.

    All im saying is that he is 16, he has more to be worried about than a girlfriend. The fact she is mentally ill should be an after thought. It seems like he is happy with her so he obviously shouldn't break up with her, the point im making is that if it ever becomes too much that ending it isnt a bad idea.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tony View Post
    Its not selfish. Its being sensible. Im not saying its the right choice but you can't live your life tip toeing around people just because their different, that is pathetic.

    All im saying is that he is 16, he has more to be worried about than a girlfriend. The fact she is mentally ill should be an after thought. It seems like he is happy with her so he obviously shouldn't break up with her, the point im making is that if it ever becomes too much that ending it isnt a bad idea.
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